Love can be the best thing to happen to a human being and the worst, most are stuck with the ladder but when the time comes many find themselves to be in that true understanding of love, relationships come and go. Sometimes people can’t even tell between love or an infatuation and so they just go on in the lie until they end up in an utter hell with nothing to show for it.
I’ve been in a love where i understand the circle of love. I was in love with her more than many can hope to achieve, and then some. We made plans with eachother, laughed with eachother and helped eachother through the hard times, and what we had didn’t just happen, it didn’t just spring up, we learnt everything we learned about eachother and became more and more attached and in tune, and we really did love eachother, i loved her and she me.
We’ve all had a relationship but you will know when your love is true if you can feel the way i do now, after all that had happened.
Our love went well, but my lover had fell out of love with me, the spark died for her, and so she did what she had to, and she left me, now i could tell you some horrid story about how she took my heart and smashed it and left em to rot like a dead dog, but it didn’t happen like that, not at all. When she left me, i was proud of her, why? You must think i’m insane for being proud of such a ridiculous concept, or perhaps you think i am just a liar about truly loving her, but i’m not. I am proud of her because she didn’t string me along like there was nothing wrong, she left because she knew that is what needed to be done, her heart didn’t belong to me anymore and so she didn’t lie to me. Her heart was swooning towards another and she had to pursue that.
Now this is why i am glad she did it. I loved her so much, that when she left, she made the decision that was best for her, the one that made her happy, and that made me happy. So you see, i loved her, not for the essence of her, sure i will miss her presence, i will miss her as a person and her title to be my beloved but ultimately i am happy she is now happy.
Love’s circle doesn’t always end with that happy ending, sometimes the prince doesn’t save the damsel, but that’s ok, because if the prince really cared and loved that damsel he would have wanted her to be happy no the circumstance.
If you truly love someone, you don’t suffer heartbreak when they leave, perhaps shock, perhaps a scar but you will never be heartbroken by a true lover, that is the love’s circle it comes into your life, and it will end, and whether that is together or not it is still love.