Love can be the best thing to happen to a human being and the worst, most are stuck with the ladder but when the time comes many find themselves to be in that true understanding of love, relationships come and go. Sometimes people can’t even tell between love or an infatuation and so they just go on in the lie until they end up in an utter hell with nothing to show for it.
I’ve been in a love where i understand the circle of love. I was in love with her more than many can hope to achieve, and then some. We made plans with eachother, laughed with eachother and helped eachother through the hard times, and what we had didn’t just happen, it didn’t just spring up, we learnt everything we learned about eachother and became more and more attached and in tune, and we really did love eachother, i loved her and she me.
We’ve all had a relationship but you will know when your love is true if you can feel the way i do now, after all that had happened.
Our love went well, but my lover had fell out of love with me, the spark died for her, and so she did what she had to, and she left me, now i could tell you some horrid story about how she took my heart and smashed it and left em to rot like a dead dog, but it didn’t happen like that, not at all. When she left me, i was proud of her, why? You must think i’m insane for being proud of such a ridiculous concept, or perhaps you think i am just a liar about truly loving her, but i’m not. I am proud of her because she didn’t string me along like there was nothing wrong, she left because she knew that is what needed to be done, her heart didn’t belong to me anymore and so she didn’t lie to me. Her heart was swooning towards another and she had to pursue that.
Now this is why i am glad she did it. I loved her so much, that when she left, she made the decision that was best for her, the one that made her happy, and that made me happy. So you see, i loved her, not for the essence of her, sure i will miss her presence, i will miss her as a person and her title to be my beloved but ultimately i am happy she is now happy.
Love’s circle doesn’t always end with that happy ending, sometimes the prince doesn’t save the damsel, but that’s ok, because if the prince really cared and loved that damsel he would have wanted her to be happy no the circumstance.
If you truly love someone, you don’t suffer heartbreak when they leave, perhaps shock, perhaps a scar but you will never be heartbroken by a true lover, that is the love’s circle it comes into your life, and it will end, and whether that is together or not it is still love.
As a dove is beautiful in a cage it is tortured, but free you see its truest beauty.
simply beautiful. if only more people had a clear understanding of true love and did not fall into a pit of despair for not being able to let him/her go when the time comes. to selfish to see that it was lust and infatuation and not love people often blind themselves.
yeah…i really did love her…but her feeling for me faded and she moved on. I don’t crucify her for it, i’m glad that she did what was best for her. I’m not saying it doesn’t hurt being alone again, but i’m happy for her, cause now she is happier. Now i just have to move on myself and hopefully find someone who i can call my own.
once again im late to read it but finally i did what you did write is true and i agree with you its hard to let go but if you love her you want her to be happy with or without you at least thats how i think of it i really enyojed reading this and i know one day you find the girl who willl love you and is not going to leave you
I hope i will be able to make him or her happy. Letting go hurts but if i fall for a man or woman that i love like this again but i can no longer make them happy…well then i will just do as i have done, and hope that i will have someone for my own.
It makes sense and it’s a good choice to just let go when one decides to leave, pursuing her would not have done you any good, but you do have a right to be a little upset…. I don’t think anyone would blame you. But I can see into your heart and I know you don’t have it in you to be angry with her or him. It’s a little funny that it makes me more frustrated than it made you.. If you are happy, then I suppose I will back down… I’m still going to be protective of my little brother’s feelings, though…
Thank you. I never said it didn’t hurt…i just said i wasn’t heart broken.
dude..you have written something trully incredible, i have someone very special to me in my life..and love her more then words could ever possibly describe, mor ethen anything in the world..my entire existence is forever connected to her..but..i don’t know what would if i were to lose her..she’s the best thing that ever happened to me..i have so much love to give to her, i want to spend every moment for the rest of my life making ehr feel the most loved happiest woman ever!
you’ll know you love her if you can say you can let her go.
but i love her beyond all measure dude! i…i just cannot imagine my life without her! if i were to loose her then i mgith as well perish! though..i would never force her to do something against her will and i would never want her to feel “tied” and obliged to stay with me,, if she were to tell me that she wants to..severe all ties with me (i pray to all the heavens and cosmic forces that that never happens) then of course she coudl go,, but i would be left a broken empty shell of a human being….just like i was before i met her,, she is my LIFE!
That was amazing brother. It was so deep and that outro left a mark on me. I’m glad you shared this.
thank you for that, i’m glad it was understood
I have to agree on one thing Matt – when somebody still allows you to create hope and future plans but at the same time wants to leave you but simply can’t say it and when you find out the truth – it is one of the most painful feelings one can experience. I have felt it.
True, i’ve felt that exact same pain.